Investing vs. Spending
“I know I need serious help but… I shouldn't have to spend money on my fertility (at least in the beginning phase)!”
Ugh...not more money!!! If I’m going to spend money, I want to sit on a beach!
Believe me, I get it. I’ve been at a pivot point where my problem didn’t respond to self help books, Youtube videos and a pile of supplements. I was STUCK!!! Or better yet, pushing a boulder up a hill. An exhausting task. Did I mention the days I felt lost in the forest and I couldn’t see the trees...it was all tree bark from my perspective.
Then came the day, I couldn’t deceive myself any longer. I needed the guidance of someone with more experience. I stepped up and “spent” $5,000 on a coach for 6 months. By the end of 6 months, I realized my “spent” was actually an “investment”. An investment in being guided, educated. A coach who cut away all the bullshit from the internet, friends and family. I was relieved not to be alone. I got help with parking my heavy knapsack - finally, I could rest without the weight of the world on my shoulders. Then I saw a tree in the forest! I had finally stepped back to see a single tree in the forest!!! OMG, what a relief to find space in the intense cluttered place I was in.
If you are honest with yourself, my services will feel like “spending” money when you find yourself thinking:
“It's more money than I want to spend."
"I was looking for a quick fix."
"I'm not ready to say I need treatment."
"My husband will not allow me to spending on this."
It’s when you want to step into the realm of “investing” into your health and well being, you will never regret the decision.
No matter the outcome.